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		<title>How to Say No</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jan 2011 16:45:33 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>While online dating you will find many people who are interested in you but you will also find that you may not be interested in everyone. Some people you will find attractive while others for whatever reason don&#8217;t seem so appealing. The polite thing to do is to simply tell them no and that you are not interested. This must be done in a nice way but not too nice because that will leave the door wide open for further communication. If you do not want to communicate any longer you will need to make that clear. Be sure not to be rude but be to the point. Sometimes if you say “no” people will not get the hint so being straightforward and rude to some extent may need to happen. A simple way to say that you are not interested is to say “thanks for showing interest but I don&#8217;t think that we would make a good match”. That is all that needs to be said and usually the person will go away. If you try over and over to get them to leave you alone and they simply don&#8217;t listen then many online dating websites will allow you to block other members. If it gets really out of hand you can usually contact someone within the online dating website that will be able to help you out.</p>
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		<title>In Search for Perfection</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jan 2011 16:46:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many people have it set in their heads, the qualities that they want in an ideal mate. For some, that involves perfection however, I am here to tell you that perfect person does not exist! That is simply because no &#8230; <a href="http://seniorspeeddating.com/in-search-for-perfection/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many people have it set in their heads, the qualities that they want in an ideal mate. For some, that involves perfection however, I am here to tell you that perfect person does not exist! That is simply because no one is perfect. We often find someone who we are dating who almost has it all. Maybe they have a great job, looks and whatever else you long for in a mate but come to find out they are lacking something. Maybe they aren’t that great during intimacy or they have a really annoying laugh. Truth is you need to let perfection go. You are not going to find it and if you wait for it, it will never come and you will end up alone. There are no princes or princesses and life is not a fairytale. If you are a perfectionist and want the perfect person you are going to need to learn how to settle if you don’t want to be alone. You may find someone who comes close to your price charming but no one will 100% satisfy you. If you’re in search for perfection you will be disappointed. The key is to find someone that almost has it all and to except their faults.</p>
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		<title>Anniversary Time!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jan 2011 16:59:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Anniversary time can be very difficult when it comes to choosing the ideal gift for your partner. You always hear of certain rules that pertain to each year in which the anniversary occurs. Just because you know your partner very &#8230; <a href="http://seniorspeeddating.com/anniversary-time/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anniversary time can be very difficult when it comes to choosing the ideal gift for your partner. You always hear of certain rules that pertain to each year in which the anniversary occurs. Just because you know your partner very well does not mean that the gift you choose will be perfect. Here is one tip that always works, every single time. As the saying goes, actions speak louder than words.</p>
<p>How does this pertain to your anniversary? Simple! Show her you love her and show him the same. Do this by planning out a on a forgettable night. It does not even need to be too involved. Perhaps a bottle of wine and a drive to the park would suffice. She would appreciate this more than going out on a simple dinner date, which chances are you do often anyway. As for men, let&#8217;s face it they all love intimacy so plan your anniversary gift all around that fact.</p>
<p>Surprise him at work or when he gets home with sexy lingerie. That is the best gift he will ever get in his eyes. Truth is you don&#8217;t need to spend hundreds of dollars when it comes to celebrating your anniversary. Anniversaries are all about the love you have for each other and the only way to best celebrated is to show it.</p>
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		<title>Giving Online Dating Membership as a gift to fellow Seniors!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jan 2011 15:35:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There’s a lot of gift giving holidays coming up and the one in February is a big one.  Valentine’s Day is a great holiday when you have someone.  You get to buy flowers and chocolates or even get to receive &#8230; <a href="http://seniorspeeddating.com/giving-online-dating-membership-as-a-gift-to-fellow-seniors/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There’s a lot of gift giving holidays coming up and the one in February is a big one.  Valentine’s Day is a great holiday when you have someone.  You get to buy flowers and chocolates or even get to receive them, but what about the people that are alone?  If you have any single friends that are going to be alone this coming Valentine’s Day then consider getting them a membership to an online dating site.  This could be a really nice gift that will cheer them up and give them an opportunity to meet someone new.</p>
<p>There are even free websites in which you could just give them a card and let them know about the website.  The free sites are great and a lot of them have millions of members in your local area.  This could really turn around this holiday for your friends.  Being alone on a romantic holiday can be really depressing and your friends are important to you.  If you want to be a good friend this coming February then let your friend know about a free online dating site that could help them not be alone next year.</p>
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		<title>Online Dating Gifts for the Holidays</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Dec 2010 19:26:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some people are terrible at finding gifts for their friends and family.  Have you ever thought of maybe getting the single people in your life a membership to an online dating service?  It might be the little push that they &#8230; <a href="http://seniorspeeddating.com/online-dating-gifts-for-the-holidays/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some people are terrible at finding gifts for their friends and family.  Have you ever thought of maybe getting the single people in your life a membership to an online dating service?  It might be the little push that they need to get them back into the dating world.  This is really for anyone that is single, including parents, grandparents, nieces and nephews that are over 18, preferably over 21 that don’t have an active dating life, but especially those close friends of yours.  If your friends are having a tough time meeting people then getting them a membership or just setting up a profile for them on a free site could make a nice gift.</p>
<p>If you want to make a profile for them, pick out their best photo.  If you know them very well then you should be able to put a lot of information about them on the site.  Their likes and dislikes.  This could be a really fun and unique gift for the special people in your life that you want to see happy.  Try it and see, there’s a lot of different websites out there for all types of people and online dating can be a great way to meet someone special.</p>
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		<title>Online dating tips for senior seekers</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Dec 2010 17:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Finding someone online is much easier than finding them outside of the internet.  Although, some people are shy and it might be harder to get them to go out on a date with you.  If you need a little assistance &#8230; <a href="http://seniorspeeddating.com/online-dating-tips-for-senior-seekers/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finding someone online is much easier than finding them outside of the internet.  Although, some people are shy and it might be harder to get them to go out on a date with you.  If you need a little assistance then maybe these few tips could get everything moving in the right direction of having a date with the one you have found.</p>
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<li>Stick to light      conversation pieces at first.       Music, movies, and general interests not covered in their online      profile is a great place to start.</li>
<li>If you find you share a      common interest, like opera or rock climbing, expand on that topic.  What’s their favorite part?</li>
<li>Don’t be afraid to admit      it’s going badly.  While you don’t      want to hurt the other person’s feelings, there are plenty of other dating      opportunities available online for you.</li>
<li>If you are struggling to      find common ground, ask about something that you’re curious about.  Maybe they’ve traveled somewhere you’ve      always wanted to go to, or have an unusual interest?</li>
<li>Just because it starts off      awkwardly doesn’t mean it won’t work out.       Sometimes people are just too shy to open up immediately.</li>
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		<title>Online Dating Tips</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2010 19:12:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now that you have finally located the someone that you have been waiting for, how do you actually get to go on a date with them?  Although, some people are shy and it might be harder to get them to &#8230; <a href="http://seniorspeeddating.com/online-dating-tips/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now that you have finally located the someone that you have been waiting for, how do you actually get to go on a date with them?  Although, some people are shy and it might be harder to get them to go out on a date with you.    However, it might help you to find someone if you have some easy tips to follow in trying to locate that special someone for that special date you have always wanted.</p>
<p>If you are wondering what you should talk about on your date, then consider talking about things that you know about.  If you know a lot about sports, then talk about sports.  If you know about fishing or baseball, anything really, then direct the conversation to those topics.  You will find that some of your interests are shared by your date and then you can talk about those topics continually.</p>
<p>Your objective is to be fun and to show how great you are.  If you are happy, then your date will be happy too.  Just go to enjoy yourself and have a nice time.  The way to do that is to be open to the experience and stay as positive as you can the entire date.</p>
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		<title>Good Gravy – Impress your date “Senior Style”</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Dec 2010 17:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you really want to impress someone then the fastest way to do that is with good cooking.  Being a good cook really shows that you have a viable skill, one that gives you value when it comes to the &#8230; <a href="http://seniorspeeddating.com/good-gravy-%e2%80%93-impress-your-date-%e2%80%9csenior-style%e2%80%9d/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you really want to impress someone then the fastest way to do that is with good cooking.  Being a good cook really shows that you have a viable skill, one that gives you value when it comes to the basic essentials.  You know food, shelter, clothing, and those basic essentials.  When dating someone, if you can demonstrate, even subtly that you can provide any of the three basic essentials, it taps into the survival instinct.  This gives you a lot of bonus points in their mind, even if they are not completely aware of it themselves.</p>
<p>If you can knit, sew, make clothes, anything of this nature that demonstrates that you can clothe yourself and others and this is a basic essential.  When you demonstrate that you can does this it makes someone feel comfortable with you.  The same goes for shelter.  If you can build with legos or Lincoln logs, if you know how to put up a tent or make a tree fort, then you are capable of providing shelter.   That one is a big deal.  If you can actually provide a house, as in, you own your home, then that is also a great way to show that you have the basic essentials under control.</p>
<p>The best one though, the one that is tied to so many other thought processes is cooking.  Show that you can cook or bake and make it your best, and you will have either another date or definitely a new friend for life.</p>
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		<title>Putting Trust in Someone You Don’t Know- Advice for Seniors</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Dec 2010 17:37:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is not the easiest thing in the world to put trust into someone that you just met.  This is entirely true when you are meeting someone for the first time.  It is perfectly ok not to put your trust &#8230; <a href="http://seniorspeeddating.com/putting-trust-in-someone-you-don%e2%80%99t-know-advice-for-seniors/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is not the easiest thing in the world to put trust into someone that you just met.  This is entirely true when you are meeting someone for the first time.  It is perfectly ok not to put your trust in the person that you just met.</p>
<p>There will be different levels of trust that you should be able to give to someone that you meet.  Maybe you can trust them enough to drive you somewhere or to pick the restaurant.  It really all depends on your personal comfort level.  If you aren’t ready to give just a little trust then you may not want to start dating right away.  You could take some time and use it to work on yourself.</p>
<p>Trust is always a scary thing to give to someone.  If you are moving along nicely with the person you have been seeing for awhile, then consider how much of your time is spent worrying about what they are doing when you aren’t around?  This is where you should give your boyfriend or girlfriend a little trust.  Trust really comes from a place of instinct.  If you feel that the person you are dating is trustworthy then allow yourself to put your trust in them.</p>
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		<title>Seniors Be Yourself!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2010 17:45:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The saying be “yourself” doesn’t only apply to young people. Senior should express their selves freely without being scared. Think about yourself for a moment and think about the things that you enjoy the most. Then, when you meet someone, &#8230; <a href="http://seniorspeeddating.com/seniors-be-yourself/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-93" href="http://seniorspeeddating.com/seniors-be-yourself/close-up-portrait-of-a-mature-couple-smiling-and-embracing/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-93" title="Senior Dating" src="http://seniorspeeddating.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Fotolia_23192672_Subscription_XXL.jpg" alt="Senior Dating" width="226" height="428" /></a>The saying be “yourself” doesn’t only apply to young people. Senior should express their selves freely without being scared. Think about yourself for a moment and think about the things that you enjoy the most. Then, when you meet someone, you can share all these things. Don’t worry about what he’ll think about the activities you like. At times letting the person know what you like to do ahead of time, could lead to a more interesting date. Also, listen to what your date has to say, let him/her feel comfortable in expressing himself/herself. The importance of being yourself on a date or in a social gathering can help you build your confidence. Moreover, don’t feel intimidated if there are people younger than you in a certain place. You don’t have to worry about what other people in the room think about you; your happiness should be your priority.</p>
<p>Seniors should have fun and you have the right to do so just like everybody else. Expressing yourself freely is a must if you want to break from your shell. You might be one of the seniors who have been single for a long time. This is the time for you to step into the dating world and start meeting someone who could be a part of your life. So be yourself!</p>
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